Ricky Dillard...Gay!?!?!

I recently heard what might be a rumor. Ricky Dillard is gay. I knew something was up when I seen him perform last year, but I just played it off. I discovered this rumor when I was watching a youtube video performance of him and "New G". The comments were literally all about his sexuality and the performance was obsolete to say the least. The entire page was a forum for condemning his sexuality.

I thought, " Wow, he gay and he sings gospel." Then I had to rethink the whole situation. " I know plenty of people who are gay and sing gospel; and even preach for that matter."

Is it better if someone is open in terms of their sexuality or is it better for them to keep it to themselves. Would it be more acceptable for Ricky to not shed light on his sexuality...if that were the case.

Disguise

We are definitely conditioned by our society. . .

Remember back a couple of years ago when J L King's DL (down low) movement came about. It was the latest craze. Homosexuality was shunned, but it seemed that everyone flocked to the topic without any hesitation. It was on television stations. In churches. And just everyday convo. Guys thought, "well, I ain't gay if nobody knows or if I do not act effeminate."

Recently, I have seen another sizzling subject that is making the headlines. Gay for Pay. This is basically guys who say they are not gay but they are compensated to appear in a gay porn...Its a gay porn. Straight people do not participate in gay porn...for any amount of money ( I guess everyone has a limit though)

Now, there is a new movement called g0y. G0ys are guys that seek intimacy from other guys and sexual attention that is restricted to oral sex only. They despise the effeminate and anal sex, and most are conservative Christians. In a sense, these are the hypocritical men who rally in the streets against homosexuality, but perform acts as only a homosexual would.

I said all of that to say this, at the end of the day, no matter how you dress it up; a man that has sex with another man is gay. The media has sensationalized gay people as the stereotypical, flamboyant queen that only depicts a small percentage of the gay community. Gay people are diverse, talented, genuine, loving, kind, mean, rude, pleasant, distinguished and much more than that 2-dimensional characters in the media. We are are human with emotions, dream, and aspirations.

For more info on g0y

http://thenewgay.net/2008/12/non-gay-christian-men-who-just-happen.html

or

http://www.g0ys.org/

Damn Damn Damn

Somebody please tell me this is not real

Truth in Joking

Ok....so I am in a blogging mood today!
I remember one time I had sort of a blind date/hook-up kind of a situation, and I started talking to this dude on the phone. He seemed pretty cool but you never know how people are; so at his initial attempt to see me I declined his offer...I needed more time to get to know him.

But he was persistent in the pursuit of me...So I was like, "well damn, I might have to do a little meet and greet."

We became closer in the coming weeks and I decided to hook it up. I set the date, location, time, and all. He was stoked about it and came as quickly as he could.

Lord, that will be the last time I will ever in my life do something like...I mean it!

When I saw him, I was shocked!!!

Now, I am not a shallow person, but he was not doing it for me. He had like a lump on his head and he just wasn't...No. (strike one)
So, I just decided to at least spend some time with him; I mean, he did drive to see me and all. He told me that he was kind of in a relationship but they were not talking. (strike two)

Then, my mind wandered back to one of our telephone convo's...

"So how do you look?" he asked.
"I'm cute if that is what you are asking. How do you look?" I replied
"I'm ugly," he said jokingly.

(strike three) {That was on me...}

We said our goodbyes and he wanted a kiss. I told him, " I'm not ready." Then he left and he never called me again. I guess he got the hint. ( was I wrong for that?)


SO NOW WHEN PEOPLE JOKE, I PAY CLOSE ATTENTION

....Oh, wait! This fool tried to pull out his dick. I was livid. Why do gay dudes think that everybody is going. Hell no! He had to go

(strike 4 5 6 7 8 9 and 10)